5 Tips To Prepare For Your Divorce

The Law Offices of Jeffrey M. Bloom can help you take a step in the right direction. For help with your impending divorce, call (855) 208-3650 to schedule a consultation.

Most divorces don’t happen fast and sudden, which means you’ll have time to prepare for your divorce while still married. Before filing for divorce, a savvy family law attorney will help you get ready for the legal process. Here are the five significant steps to make this major life shift just a little smoother:

1. Start saving money.

Divorce can be expensive, and you deserve the peace of mind of having a little nest egg just for you. Put money aside in a separate bank account while simultaneously cutting down on frivolous spending. However, make sure this approach doesn’t look like you’re “hiding” money, which can work against you in court. If the split is amicable, agree to close joint accounts.

2. Start documenting your divorce.

How do your married family finances work? Track all incomes, assets, debts and regular expenses. Make copies of key financial information such as taxes, bank statements, pay stubs, and receipt for big purchases. Keep this information in a safe place, preferably in both hard and soft copy form. A safety deposit box and cloud storage only you have access to are best.

3. Prepare for the worst.

Even seemingly amicable splits can turn ugly in court. If you have children, always assume a custody dispute may occur. Start documenting the care of your children including who takes care of their needs. If police reports or required drug tests occurred during your marriage/when you had children, make sure you have those documents available. They’re gold in child custody cases. Get records from the schools that prove which parent is involved and how. Most importantly, as long as you’re safe (i.e., no domestic violence) never, under any circumstances, move out of the home. You need to stay with the children in the “family home.”

4. Find a quality divorce lawyer.

You deserve the best divorce attorney for this often confusing experience. Check reviews and testimonials, and choose an attorney who specializes in family law. You’ll also need to meet with any financial experts you depend on, like a CPA, to get ready for divorce. Seeing a therapist can also help you and your family get ready for significant changes coming your way.

5. Avoid making unnecessary major changes.

For many getting ready for divorce, they self-sabotage and prematurely “take advantage of” all the things they think they missed out on while married. This often reflects poorly in court, especially if you have children. Plus, major changes and purchases usually aren’t a good move at this point.

The Law Offices of Jeffrey M. Bloom can help you take a step in the right direction. For help with your impending divorce, call (855) 208-3650 to schedule a consultation.

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